Here are the 8 profile pictures that actually help you win at online dating: you're geocaching or in the midst of a game night, have a friend take a couple pics. We're just going to put this out there: If you upload only one photo, that's just laziness. If all it takes is one-tenth of a second for someone to decide what they . a professional photographer based in New York City, told the site. A man trying to take the best profile picture possible while standing outside and These photos won't actually win you matches on dating sites.